Everybody has heard of the concept of six degrees of separation. In PR, especially with the growing popularity of social media, the gap is quickly narrowing.
Every time we meet someone new, no matter what position they are in, we are making a valuable connection. Down the road, these connections can prove to be beneficial in our professional careers.
However, I would like to stress the importance of building relationships that are not based on ulterior motives. Networking has its merit, but only if it is done in a genuine manner. It is obvious to people of influence if someone is only talking to them to get something from them.
Let’s use a personal example. My father is the owner of the highly coveted Maple Leafs season’s tickets. A co-worker, let’s call him Jake, only talks to me if he wants me to get him hockey tickets. Not surprisingly, I have never given him hockey tickets, whereas I would be happy to get them for any of my other co-workers.
I think this is the same with networking events. The person at the event who is talking to everyone about common interests will be seen as more genuine than the person who is running around trying to get the business cards of the most influential people in the room. Chances are the people who are genuine will have more people trying to help them succeed.
As the school year is ending, I feel that I have made a lot of valuable connections in my classroom. Whether they become CEOs of large corporations or entry-level employees in a small firm, I know that they will help me succeed the best they can. In return, I will also do the best I can to help them out.
So class (if you are reading this) if there is ever anything you need, please contact me. I hope to one day be a valuable connection for more than just hockey tickets.

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March 15, 2008 at 4:46 pm
Rayanne Langdon
Aww, this is a sweet post, Maggie. I appreciate that. And, I’ll never want Maple Leafs tickets. So, you can bet I won’t rely on you for that. Haha.
I completely agree with what you’ve said here. I’ve met so many people this year both on and offline, and many of those connections have remained. I don’t meet people to try to get a job or be seen as some great up-and-coming superstar. I just like meeting them! So, I’m glad you doing the same, and pointed that out.
Besides, who even cares about collecting business cards anymore? It’s not like you can’t find out how to contact everyone you’d meet at a networking event, anyway! But, I’m not gonna lie, I’m definitely really excited to have my own : )
March 15, 2008 at 5:24 pm
Rick Weiss
Hey Maggie,
Thanks for exending the offer! I’m of the same camp. I’m always willing to help if I can.
March 18, 2008 at 3:24 pm
lscheniman
I know EXACTLY how you feel Maggie. My pops has season tickets too. And year after year, the I get these random phone calls from buddies from highschool saying “Hey Laurie, how’s it going. Blah Blah Blah. Leafs tickets?”
I never really care to go to the trouble of asking my pops about the availability of the tickets, because I know these “friends” are only using me. I am extremely bothered by the lack of personal consideration they display. If they want to deal business, they can talk to my dad. If they want to talk to me, it better not be about what favour I can do for them.
Connections only benefit you when there’s respect involved. If I don’t sense any respect, I will not be bothered to go out of my way for them.
I try my best to maintain a personal connection with people I meet through networking. I don’t want to be one of my ‘buddies’ who only talk to me when they need a favour.